Friday, March 13, 2020

LaFeber Life Lately: 2 Months with Isla :)


2 months of perfection!!


The time is flying by and I feel powerless to stop it! I only have 2 weeks left of my Maternity Leave and it is killing me :(. Fortunately though, I have cut down to Per Diem now and will only be working one to two times per month. With Josh's crazy job schedule, it just feels impossible to do it all. So my work life took the hit and I am totally okay with that! Josh goes back to work at the end of April so we have been taking advantage of this time having both parents at home to get all of our doctors appointments out of the way! So I have been getting oral surgeries to fix my receding gum line (so depressing) and Josh got a Vasectomy yesterday! So we are both in a good deal of pain but are trying to not let that get us down! I am actually really surprised at how well Josh is handling his pain... I had heard that this particular surgery was debilitating and he is still up walking around! WOW! Now that we have Isla, we feel like our family is complete and we are whole. I have felt like something is missing for quite a while now and now that she is in my arms, that feeling is gone. So we decided to get the surgery done before Josh goes back to work and it is too late! He doesn't get time off like the typical person so it was now or never.

Isla is growing like a weed (she weighed 12 pounds at her 2 month doctors appointment and is in the 75th percentile for everything!). She is smiling and loves making eye contact. She loves to just sit and smile at you while you talk to her and is trying her hardest to learn how to coo along with you! Evie loves her more than anything and is always right there by my side taking care of her! First thing in the morning she comes running into the room searching for her baby and she can't go to sleep until she has kissed her goodnight. The love my children have for each other lights up our lives and is the sweetest part of my day. Austin has warmed up to the baby and enjoys holding her and playing with her. Now we are working on getting her on a sleep schedule because Mama is really struggling in that department!

Taking Evie on a special little date to Starbucks before I dropped her off at Preschool! I've been trying to find little moments with each kid to make them feel special and it hasn't always been easy.

Dad is so great at getting Isla to fall asleep! All he has to do is hold her just like this...

I got cleared for exercise this month and have been doing my  best to make it happen! It's definitely not as easy now that I am the mother of 3!
I've gotten back into High Fitness with my dear friends and we exercise together at the church each week!

As you can see, we have a lot of fun getting our sweat on!
Evie reading "The Tale of Peter Rabbit" to the  baby so Mom could take a shower!

Oh Austin, you are such a character! And the baby loves it! :)

Enjoying all the snuggles I can while she is small!

Hanging out in Evie's room looking at photo books and talking about all of our fun memories :).

Family movie night!

Isla kept me busy during the whole movie hahaha!

Evie loves her little sister so much!!


Those little hands......

Oh sweet baby girl, how I love you!!


My girls watching TV together :)

Isla's all ready for her bath! Could she get any more delicious?!

Brotherly love :)

The kids making a leprechaun trap for St. Patrick's Day! :)

Austin dressed as Pete the Cat for reading week!

Austin's first grade class during reading week!

I love Ellis Elementary so much! They make learning fun!

Austin's class listening to stories told by community members.

Happy Reading week from Mrs. Westra's first grade class!
These spring days have been beautiful and full of sunny walks outside!

My sweet angel taking a nap.

Getting ready for church!

Could she be any more perfect?!
And lets just take a moment to admire these adorable little shoes that were Evie's when she was little! They had little black scuff marks on them because Evie was already walking when she wore them! She had the tiniest feet and wore baby shoes when she should have been wearing toddler size shoes! But I love that memory that the little black scuffs brings and am so happy to have these cute pink shoes back in my life :).

Oh how I love my girls.

Isla got her 2 month vaccinations and she did soooo good! She hardly cried! I was so impressed with her! This is a pic from that night. All she needed was a little Tylenol and she slept just fine! SCORE!!

She is starting to enjoy watching her mobile and this floor toy, but hasn't quite learned how to use her hands yet.
Having some floor time with my girls!


He finally conquered his fears and learned how to ride his bike without training wheels!!! Hallelujah!!

Things get interesting when Dad's in charge :)

Taking Isla for a cab ride hahaha!
This week I have started working on getting her to nap in her crib so I can get something done during the day! Yesterday she wasn't having it, but today it worked out nicely! She is still sleeping in her bassinet by our bed at night though and we will continue with that until she is a little older... I don't want to miss a thing since she is our last baby and will willingly put up with the lack of sleep at night if it means keeping her little for just a little bit longer....


Happy Birthday to Me! 32 and Counting!!


Happy 32nd Birthday to MEEEE!!!! Life is looking pretty good from this angle!
 We had originally planned a fun birthday out at Mount Charleston in a cabin with the kids, but life has been so overwhelming lately with everything going on, so I cancelled it and put that money towards a 2 hour massage for myself instead ;). I had a beautiful birthday on a beautiful sunny day with those I love and it couldn't have been more perfect. I feel like this year is all about taking things slow and I am totally okay with that. That morning I got my free birthday coffee from Starbucks and snuggled my baby. Then I took Isla for a walk in the beautiful weather and admired the blossoming trees while smelling the sweet honey smell of spring. Briana and her sweet family showed up right when we got back from our walk and we spent the rest of the day playing with them at the park and then having a steak BBQ back at the house! The food was amazing; Josh did such a great job! Austin had school that day which was a bummer but he got to meet up with us at the park and spend the rest of the evening with us. The kids loved playing Twister and we had fun dancing and just enjoying each other's company :). It was the perfect day and I couldn't help feeling like all is right in the world. This year, especially. I didn't know what to wish for as I blew out the candles on my Birthday cake because I already feel like I have it all....

Enjoying my walk with sweet baby Isla!

Sisters make the best of friends!

Uncle Thomas is such a great guy and the kids adore him!

Enjoying the sunshine!


Nana gives the best snuggles... all my kids think so!


Playing Twister! It was so fun!



Thank you Lord for another year, and cheers to what lies ahead!




Isla's Blessing Day



Isla wore the same blessing gown that Evie wore. It was a gift from my Mom and it was so special to have both daughters wear it.




Isla had the most beautiful blessing day and we spent it with some of our favorite people! We were just missing Grandpa Nate who had to work :(. That weekend, Grandma Janis and Grandpa Steve flew out to spend some time with us and we had a lot of fun at the park and ordering take out so we could just hang out at home and enjoy their company. Uncle Nick and Aunt Jenn also flew in that weekend and the kids had a blast rough housing with their favorite uncle while Jenn gave me all sorts of tips on how to sleep train Isla since it has been 4 years since I last had a newborn and I've already forgotten so much!

Uncle Nick is a fan favorite!

Aunt Jenn has so much baby knowledge and makes the best sister in law for me when I need advice!


We loved having Grandma and Grandpa with us!

Fun at the park!


Even Isla enjoyed herself! :)

Austin learned how to ride his bike without training wheels recently and couldn't wait to show his grandparents!

Grandma couldn't get enough snuggles from this girl!




Church wasn't until noon, so we spent the morning playing board games with family and then Grandma Janis helped me get the baby all ready for her special day! Aunt Jenn bought Isla a special bracelet for her keepsakes and it was so adorable on her tiny wrist! I was so happy to have everyone here and to show off my sweet baby to the family. We hadn't been back to church since she was born so it was also fun showing her off to all our ward friends! Josh gave a beautiful blessing with Grandpa Steve, Uncle Nick, and Bishop Nash in on the circle. Our blessing circle was small because most of our family has left the church, but the spirit was even stronger that day than I had ever felt before. Maybe it was just my hormones, but I was in tears the entire time in sacrament. I was so proud of my amazing husband for his faith in providing our children with special blessings from their worthy father. I was so grateful for his family who all came to support us. Grandma Helm took my hand during the blessing and I knew it was symbolic for how far she has come with the church and how proud she is of me (she was inactive most of her life and is now coming back and has even asked me to do her work for her and my grandpa Helm after she dies) and for how we were the only two people representing the Helm side of the family. When Josh named the baby Isla Frances in the blessing, I squeezed grandmas hand and she tried not to cry. Frances was her mother and my most special grandmother whom I miss deeply and hope to honor her with my child who is named after her. The only three people from my family there was my Grandma Helm, my Mom, and Grandma Wiegel. That hurt my feelings deeply. But I tried not to let it bother me and only focused on how grateful I was for the people who WERE there. I do have to give Briana and Aunt April credit for trying to come though. Gracelynn threw up in the car on their way to the blessing so Briana had to miss the blessing so she could bathe Gracelynn at our house. And I accidentally gave Aunt April the wrong church address so she spent sacrament in the wrong ward!! Ugh.... I felt like such an idiot when she told me. After the blessing, I got up and bore my testimony and tried so hard not to cry, but it was inevitable. My heart was overflowing with gratitude and there didn't seem to be words to express how I was feeling! I did my best though and I hope the holy spirit did the rest. During sacrament, the kids played quietly with Aunt Jenn and my Mom and Grandma W. held the baby. So for the first time in forever I was able to just listen to the speakers and hold hands with my husband while I sat next to Grandma Helm and enjoyed that moment with her. It was a tender moment and I don't know how to describe the sweet joy I was feeling in that moment. It was like all was right in the world and I knew we were exactly where we were supposed to be. Very rarely does one get that kind of validation.

We held a luncheon at our house after sacrament and had many more people show up for that! We enjoyed the food and company while the kids ran around and had fun swiping food from the kitchen and having a dance party with their baby cousin Gracelynn :). Like I said, it was the perfect day, and blessed is an understatement. We may not have it all together, but together we have it all. Isla, you perfect our family in a way that only you could. I prayed for years to have you and now that I do, I don't know what we ever did without you!

Playing board games before church.

Baby sis all ready for her big debut!

My forever family :).





So grateful for the women in  my family who showed up for me to make this moment special.

Oh how we love Grandma Helm!

Aunt April made it to the luncheon along with Grandma and Grandpa Porter. I still can't believe I gave her the wrong address! I am mortified!

My side of the family!

Dad and Evie enjoying the buffet food we had prepared!

We were so sad that Nana missed the blessing, but she made up for it afterwards!

I got so lucky in the mother in law department! She is a true gem.