Monday, March 11, 2019

LaFeber Life Lately: January-March...Where to Begin?!!

This is the perfect depiction of our spring this year! It's either raining or snowing! I'm still in shock at how abnormally cold it has been! But that doesn't stop these two goof balls from having fun!


Wow, life just gets so busy! It's already the middle of March and I have so much to catch up on! We have had such a crazy winter/spring this year! We actually got snow! Like REAL snow! We woke up to a winter wonderland and we walked to school in the fluffy whiteness in total awe that this was actually happening. There was so much snow, in fact, that I had to go outside and shake our trees with a broom because they were touching the ground from the weight of the snow!

Day 1 of snow!

Which progressed to day 2!

Literally walking in a winter wonderland!

Such a rare moment when you live in the desert!

By day 3, the school district called a snow day! Evie was sooo happy to have her brother home for the day!

We also spent time out in Logandale over Martin Luther King Weekend for my Mom's 51st Birthday! We spent the entire weekend outdoors soaking up sunshine because the weather was too good to be true! The kids always love going out there to play in Grandma's gigantic 3 acres of land and I love the freedom it gives me! :)
I literally did yoga for 4 straight hours and loved every minute of it!

It was so beautiful to find my breath amongst the sunshine, fresh air, and sound of my children happily playing in the yard.

And of course I had company :). Lily sat with me the whole time and I was even attacked by a hummingbird! I took it as a positive sign that someone in the universe is very much aware of my presence :).

And of course I got to enjoy all these beautiful roses that my kids picked for me and laid carefully in front of me on my yoga mat. THIS rose in particular is the most beautiful smelling flower I have ever smelt in my life!
Of course the weather was too good to ever eat indoors! We enjoyed multiple picnics!

And we loved seeing all our family who came out to celebrate my Mom :).

My Mom is struggling right now with having just gotten divorced and learning to live on her own. So this was a nice bright spot in her week and it made me happy to be a part of that :).

Cheesecake for the win!

We devoured that cheesecake in less than 30min!

Cuddles with Aunt Heidi!

We decided to go for a family walk out in the desert to work off all that cheesecake :). It was such a beautiful night to explore!

Then we had a bonfire!

Austin especially loved the fire part :)

This sunset was the perfect end to a perfect day. It was hard not to feel God's love in this moment as we sat around the fire laughing and enjoying natures beauty.

Before all of the snow came, we had a couple beautiful weeks where we were able to play basketball and tennis as a family after picking Austin up from school! The kids loved it and are always begging to do it again! We just need some of that beautiful Nevada sun to come back and we will be all over that court again!





Tennis was harder than we had expected with little kids, but they still did great! It just took a little extra patience (haha).

Austin has been doing SO GOOD in Kindergarten! It's like he suddenly grew this second semester because he is no longer struggling with passing off sight words and he is catching onto things much faster now! I went into his classroom during reading week and read a story to his class. Austin was in heaven getting all the attention from his classmates who were eager to find out more about his Mom :). Evie was with me and did so good sitting next to me the whole time. It was like she was taking it all in, as she always does. She is so eager to grow up and start Kindergarten and I am eager to keep her small forever. Sadly she is winning in that department. She hates being left behind while her brother is off learning and growing. And growing he is! He is not only growing academically, but socially as well :). Every afternoon when I pick him up, there are at least 4 kids who are frantically yelling goodbye to him and he shyly responds with his sweet little grin :). My sweet, shy boy is finding his voice and making friends left and right! His favorite friend is a little girl named Harper, who just happens to have an awesome Mom that I love and a little brother almost Evie's age! So we always hang out with them at the school, or walk to the park together when the weather is nice. It's always so fun on those days because all of his other friends and their Mom's have the same idea and it turns out to be a big party! We Mom's sit at the bench and chat while all 20 kids run around wild. One day in particular, we couldn't find our boys and we started searching frantically until we found them crouched behind the bathrooms dissecting a dead bird with their bare hands!!! It was incredibly disgusting but hilarious all at the same time. We Moms were horrified and the boys were thrilled to tell us all that they had discovered inside that poor rotten animal. Oh the life of a boy-mom hahaha!
He has recently requested that I stop spiking his hair and start parting it to the side.... it is such a fun moment to see him starting to become aware of his appearance and finding a style of his own!

But don't worry, this wasn't his style hahaha! This was Austin dressing as an old man for the 100th Day Of School! See his lack of teeth?! hehe!

Riding his scooter to school on Hat Day!

Austin has brought home some beautiful art projects over the past year, but this one might be my favorite! I think he meant to say "Has a scarf" but didn't know how to spell it so gave up and figured nobody would know the difference anyway? hahaha!

Waiting in the car on one particularly rainy day for Austin's Fun Run Race to start so we could go cheer him on!

The A-Man all lined up and ready to go! This Fun Run was a fundaiser event to raise money for his school and it was sooo fun to watch! They earned money for every lap they ran and those kids took their job very seriously!

Run like the wind Austin! I couldn't help but cry as I cheered him on! Yes, I cried. Story of my life....
Every morning we do positive affirmations before school. It is so important to me that when my kids leave the safety of our home, they know who they are and what they stand for.

Austin gets slighty embarassed about it, but Evie drinks it up and loves all the special one on one attention :).

This morning we went to school an hour early for Pastries with Parents!

We sat next to Austin's friend Jane, and her Mom who also happens to be a good friend. I love that he and I have similar taste in friends :). It makes mornings like this so fun!

We also went to his school's Math, Science, and Literacy Family Night where we got to do fun science experiments!

The kids were both in heaven! It was such a fun night!
Evie has been doing so great in Preschool and Dance Class! She takes dance so seriously and is honestly the best dancer in the group! She also LOVES to learn and socialize which makes our little home preschool so much fun! She gets to see her little friends every week and when they aren't learning together, she and I are making fun memories and learning together :). She is such an intelligent, vivacious little girl and will be unstoppable in this world, of that I am certain.
The prettiest thing I ever laid eyes on :)

Evie and I found this jeep at Goodwill for $10 and it might possibly be the greatest purchase of all time!

She's obsessed with Candyland and always wants to play! I love that it teaches her colors and counting so it's a double win!

Painting our nails together! She chewed it off 10min later.....grrrr! Like her Dad, Evie has a habit of biting her nails which makes manicures basically impossible.

We finally had a beautiful Sunday morning to enjoy! Playing outside is the highlight of our days! Especially with how cold it has been lately!

At this particular dance class, I made the mistake of telling Evie to smile. She got upset at me and turned around all dramatically as if she were composing herself....

And then she commenced to dance backwards the rest of the day just so I couldn't see her face! She is such a stubborn stinker sometimes! But I couldn't help but love the view of that adorable little bum!

Playing Go Fish outside in the sunshine while eating Goldfish! This is another game Evie can never get enough of!

Such a beautiful day to roll down the hill.....I love how kids have zero inhibitions and live so freely.

Helping Mom wash the veggies to make some veggie soup!

My little helper in the kitchen! She loves to cut the peppers and I love all the skills cooking teaches!

This was a sad day.... Evie was sick and we spent the whole day cuddling and watching Disney movies.

She's also my constant yoga companion and loves to show me what she's learned :)

Shopping with Mom is hard work! :)
A little morning brunch date with my best friend :). We love walking down to Jolly Beans Cafe for some pastries and coffee. They have a fun game corner where you can play games and enjoy!

I picked these two cuties up from Preschool and they were so excited to show me their art projects! Today they learned about "Under the Sea"!

Evie's preschool class hard at work!

Are they not the cutest little girls in the whole wide world?!! I fall in love with them all every week!
More yoga :)

Chatting in dance class with one of her little friends :)

Another rare, gorgeous day calls for a park day and a stop at the Cafe!

This is what heaven looks like in my book :)

She loves the song PERFECT, by Ed Sheeran and we slow dance to it whenever it comes on, just like this. It makes me cry Every. Single. Time.

Cuddles out on the porch by the fire!

And more cuddles.... because this girl has been attached to me since the day she was born! Seriously though, not much has changed in 4 years in this department and I love it so much!

Evie got to go to her friend's Princess Party and had a great time! Aren't they all so adorable?!

During dance class, Ms. Vivian told all the little girls to fold their arms and Evie immediately thought it was time to say the prayer hahaha! It was hilarious and all the Mom's were looking at me like "What the heck is she doing?" :)

On Pointe :)


Evie's little dance class :). 3 year old ballerinas are THE CUTEST!
Aaaannd a goofy pic of my two goofballs because you never know what you're going to come across during the day :).

We also had a fun time cheering on the Patriots in the Superbowl this year! The kids were so excited to have an excuse to run around wild, drinking soda and eating snacks :). The Superbowl itself wasn't too exciting, but our little party was totally worth it!
Go Patriots!!!

We also have been making it a priority to have Family Home Evening every week and the kids love it! We let them help teach the lesson and try to make it very interactive. It also helps that we have ice cream sundaes afterwards to keep everybody's attention :). My favorite was when we were learning about testimonies and Evie told us that she thought she had a testimony, but then she looked all around her room and couldn't find it, so she doesn't have one anymore :). And then after we laughed, Austin went on to compare a testimony to the moon and how you still have one, even if you can't see that it is there. Mind Blown. Seriously, these two are the greatest!
Austin giving us his incredible synopsis on life.

And Evie verifying with the scriptures that her testimony was indeed lost in her bedroom... :).

Family movie nights are the best! This scene right here melts my heart like butter :).

Evie also graduated to Sunbeams this year and she was so excited! She couldn't wait to be able to get up and sing in Sacrament with Austin! He is her everyday hero and she wants to do EVERYTHING he does. I still can't believe our baby is getting so big!
The traditional Nursery Graduation Pic!

When you're the best of friends...

There is no doubt in my mind that these two were sent to conquer the world together.

So incredibly grateful for this family of mine :).
Especially when the hubby surprises me with flowers!
We also got a visit from Grandma and Grandpa Ronnenkamp a couple weeks ago! It was only for the weekend, and I worked the whole day on Saturday, but we made it count on Saturday night with a special dinner out at Rodizio, and on Sunday with church and an entire day of playing board games. The kids have turned into board game fanatics and can literally play all day long! This is such a fun age and we were so happy to have Grandma and Grandpa here to share it with us! I also have to note that the kids were incredibly well behaved at dinner! We never take them to fancy restaurants for obvious reasons so as I was getting them all dressed up that night, I explained to them the gravity of the situation and we talked about manners. We then made it a competition to see who could have the best manners and they took that challenge to heart! I was blown away by how long Evie sat still and how hard Austin tried to eat without spilling and to use the utensils correctly.  It was a proud moment for me as a mother and we were ALL impressed by how much Austin ate! We thought for sure that he would only be able to take a few bites of his dessert after eating all that meat, but he ate THE ENTIRE CHEESECAKE!! After we had bathed the kids on Sunday night, we had a really special moment with Janis and Steve where I was given a priesthood blessing to help me with the hormonal struggle I have had since the miscarriage and we opened up to them about our struggles with life, parenthood, marriage, etc. It was so healing to have this moment with Josh's parents because we don't get to see them or be real with them often. I know it was something josh really needed, especially since his Dad died. The spirit was so strong in the room that night and there was no doubt in our minds that God loved us and wanted us to know that we are doing a good job. It was the strength we needed to try harder and carry on.
Our night out at Rodizio!

A whole day of games and laughter :).

We also celebrated Valentines Day in the full festive spirit with Mom's homemade giant pink cookies, Dad's flowers and special gifts (I got a beautiful wedding band to go with my wedding ring and I love it so much!) and the kid's special homemade cards. Love was in the air! That's for sure :). It was also a fun new experience helping Austin make a mailbox for his Kindergarten Valentine Party! He took the job very seriously and Evie never left his side as she happily drew pictures that she felt matched the importance of his party :).
Hard at work on his Valentines Box for his class! He came home with it loaded to the brim with cards and goodies, expressing to me that this was one of the best days in the world! I love how kids make every holiday so much more exciting! :)

I got up super early to have these cookies frosted and ready to go for my loves when they woke up :).

My Valentines- 2019 :)

We had the most amazing time up at Mount Charleston this year! We were worried that waiting until Presidents Day Weekend to take our cabin trip might rule out any chance of snow, but boy were we wrong! It was the most snow I had seen in years!!! The snow came right up to the top of the street signs! We loved playing out in the snow and then coming inside the cabin to warm up by the fire and play board games on the big bed. And then we went back out for more! We made it even more fun on our last day there by saying that the loser of the board games had to go running out in the snow in their underwear hahaha! The kids thought this was insane and refused to do it until their crazy Dad went streaking by and started making snow angels in his underwear hahaha!! I wish I could have gotten a picture of their faces! After that, we all did it and had so much fun! And then we warmed up in the giant Jacuzzi bathtub in the corner of the one room cabin. It's funny how such a tiny space can hold so much fun! The kids fell asleep by the fire in their sleeping bags and loved every minute of it! And Mom and Dad stayed up late just talking and enjoying the view of the fires glow on our sleeping babes. It's moments like those that I hope to never forget. Those precious moments when it is just us, enjoying quality time together without any modern distractions. We were all SOOOO sad to go home :(. 
All loaded up and ready to head up the mountain! Mount Charleston here we come!!
Together we have it all :)

It was all sunshine and laughter in that winter wonderland!


As you can see, we got SOOOO wet and happily welcomed the warm fireplace :)

Building our snowman together :)

Austin was obsessed with finding the biggest icicle! And I think he found it!

We didn't have a sled, so I had brought white garbage bags in hopes that it would work!

And it sure did! They worked like a charm!

Sliding down the hill on our garbage bag and having the time of our lives! Talk about simple pleasures :)

Austin taking some time to sit at the top of his snowy hill and think.

Then he got back to building his snowman :)

My little angel making a snow angel :)



That face says it all :)

Snow ball fights get pretty serious around here ;)

So thankful for this man and all that we have created together :)

Warming up by the fireplace with some hot cocoa! Cheers!

Later in the evening, I taught the kids how to crochet as my Great Grandma Thayer had taught me.

These sweet, quiet moments were the best. I wished I could stop time and just do this forever.

But eventually the kiddos fell asleep :).


Thursday, January 10, 2019

Happy New Year!! Welcome 2019!


Happy New Year and Cheers to 2019!!!


We had a wonderful New Years Eve this year! It was the first year we really involved the kids and made it a family event. Usually we tuck them into bed early and Josh and I enjoy a fun night of games and whatnot. But the kids are getting older and we felt that they would be able to understand the whole New Years thing this year.

The kids and I spent the day at the dollar store getting decorations and then at the grocery store buying all the food we could think of to make our evening celebration great! Which of course included multiple bottles of Martinelli's and individual champagne flutes that said 2019 on them that we found at the dollar store! The kids were in heaven as they felt so cool with their special drinks!

When Dad walked through the door from work, the kids ambushed him with silly string and confetti poppers! It was such a fun way to kick off the evening and get everyone in a silly mood! Then we set out all the food on the table, popped open our sparkling grape juice, and spent the night watching movies, playing games, building legos, and eating! I had thought we might be able to make it to midnight this year but the kids started getting grumpy just in time to count down with the folks in New York on the TV so we called it a night at that point and tucked our kiddos into bed.

Josh and I stayed up after that and had a relaxing evening together. We talked about our hopes and dreams for this upcoming year and all the things we are grateful for... it was the perfect ending to the perfect year. Seriously, I was so sad to see 2018 disappear from sight. Despite losing the baby, it was the perfect year! We did SO MUCH TRAVELING! And we lived every day as if it were our last! I've spent every  night over the past week looking through pictures of this amazing year and crying myself to sleep with gratitude! Life since 2015 hasn't been easy, but 2018 made it all worth it! It almost makes me scared of 2019 because I don't know if anything could ever top the previous year and the last thing I want is to suffer like those horrible years past.... But I am putting my faith in God and that he knows what is best for me and my family. "Que sera, sera...." right?


My word for 2019 is Peace. I want to spend this year finding peace in my life. In my heart, in my soul, in my longings. I want to slow down and enjoy the beauty around me; my children, my husband, my home and community. Teaching yoga taught me so many things, but mostly it taught me to slow down and focus on what is in front of me. To live in the moment. So that is what I am going to do this year, and it is going to be amazing! Goodbye 2018, and thank you for EVERYTHING! and Welcome 2019! May you be fabulous and fortunate!! :)


Since Austin still had a couple days left of his Christmas Break before he headed back to school, we decided to finish off the week in Logandale with my Mom. She and I haven't seen eye to eye for a while now and there has been more fighting than kindness and love. But since I am striving for peace this year, I knew we needed to fix this. So we drove out there and spent a couple days in the country. The kids played outside all day every day jumping on the trampoline, riding bikes, and playing with the neighborhood kids. And when it got dark, I called them in and we all happily made dinner together. The kids had a blast peeling carrots and chopping up celery for our homemade chicken noodle soup (which tastes amazing by the way) and Grandma loved having the company! She has been so lonely and lost since the divorce and it was so apparent how much she needed this. She and I had a HUGE blow up the first night we were there that had me crying until 3am and wondering what the hell had possessed me to go visit her in the first place! But the next day we worked it out and things were good after that. Like I said, there is a lot of stuff we have been needing to work on in our relationship but she and I struggle big time with communication. So we will keep trying and pray that God graces us with enough patience to figure it all out.

Visiting the mini horses that live next door! They are so dang cute!

Grandma trying to teach Austin how to ride his bike without training wheels! It's a work in progress and he asked to put his training wheels back on after this haha! But we will get there someday!

Playing in the desert.... It brings back so many childhood memories of my own.

Helping make dinner!
After that, we headed home and life went back to normal. Evie went back to Dance class and preschool, Austin went back to school, and Mom went back to work. It has been a struggle getting back into the swing of things this past week, but we are getting it figured out :).


"My name is Elsa and my job is to be happy"-Evie     Evie is Princess Elsa all day, every day!

Just call Austin "Mr. Fix-it" because he is all about fixing things!

His first day back at school and he had a great day! He said he had really missed Recess and all of his friends! :)
Ballerina Evie back in her element with all the other little Princesses :)

Preschool was fun this week as we learned about the letter "O" and made Cheeri-O necklaces!

Of course she's wearing her Elsa dress for Preschool haha!

These little girls crack me up! I loved listening to their conversations as they sat there hard at work making their necklaces!

Flying Austin's new drone at the park with Daddy!

It's always fun when Daddy is home!

As you can see, 2019 has already had a beautiful start and I am excited to see what each month brings us! Cheers!!!